What:

is/isn’t working in my life?
is most important to me?
motivates me?
am I most afraid of?
destructive habits do I have?
pressures do I put on myself?
is comfortable and safe vs. what I really want?
do I want to do differently
are the typical things I have tried to change about my partners?
am I looking for when I say ‘romantic declaration’?
am I trying to face?
what lies do I tell myself about love:
- ex . Lie- we were meant to be
- Truth – professions of undying romantic notions too not equal love
about myself do I not like, am ashamed of, or regret?
is my present relationship with my intuition?
instances did I not trust my intuition?
do I really want?
is a foundation for a healthy relationship?

When:

have I believed a man completed me and how different would that relationship have been if I believed I completed myself?
have I made unhealthy choices about a man because of my own low self esteem or how self confidence?
have I settled?
have I had an unhealthy partnership?